RELATIONSHIP BREAKDOWN

Splitting

Splitting, written by Bill Eddy, helps you protect yourself during a separation or divorce from a high-conflict personality. This book was written as a guide to help people protect themselves from being manipulated, the subject of false accusations, and abuse. Divorce is difficult under the best of circumstances. When your spouse has a high conflict personality, borderline personality disorder (BPD), narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), or is manipulative, divorcing can be especially complicated. While people with these tendencies may initially appear convincing and even charming to lawyers and judges, you know better-many of these “persuasive blamers” leverage false accusations, attempt to manipulate others, launch verbal and physical attacks, and do everything they can to get their way. Splitting is your legal and psychological guide to safely navigating a high-conflict divorce from an unpredictable spouse. This book includes all of the critical information you need to work through the process of divorce in an emotionally balanced, productive way. Turn to this guide to help you: Predict what your spouse may do or say in court Take control of your case with assertiveness and strategic thinking Choose a lawyer who understands your case Learn how e-mails and social networking can be used against you - Harbinger Press Biography: Bill Eddy, LCSW, JD, has been a family lawyer for over eighteen years and a therapist for over twelve years.

Healing Heartbreak: Healing Your Heart

Healing Heartbreak We've all been through heartache, but heartbreak is in a category all of its own. It is one of the worst kinds of pain that we experience. When heartbroken you literally feel as if you will never recover from the pain of loss you are experiencing. It becomes impossible to picture a future for yourself as you truly do not know how you will get through the day ahead of you. You actually cannot imagine going through an hour of the day, without thinking about or wishing for the person you have lost. Nothing takes away this sadness, it is as if you could drown in it. More than anything I have put these thoughts down to try and help a little bit. There is no magic cure-all but there are some ways you can try and manage yourself through this painful and desperate time. Please when you are reading through these suggestions try and keep in the mind the idea that the recovering from heartbreak is a journey. It is not a life-sentence, or an interminably revolving door. Seeing it as a journey will empower you and help you survive it.healing heartbreak Accept your state of being. Acknowledge to yourself that your heartbreak is one of the most incredibly devastating pains you have experienced, and respect your suffering. You need to do this

4 Relationship Warning Signs Everyone Should Know About

4 Relationship Warning Signs Everyone Should Know About Even if you've been somewhat happy with your significant other for quite a while, there are some relationship warning signs you can't ignore. They can turn into massive outbursts as fast as you can say break-up. If your loved one shows any of the following signs, it's time to discuss some matters.   They Don't Give You Any Space One of the first relationship warning signs you'll notice is the constant need for overstepping boundaries. Here are some aspects you should watch out for: Your partner makes insensitive jokes at your expense. Between the two of you, certain boorish jokes can be fun. But in front of your friends, this can become a problem. Your loved one forces you to share private information. Constant nagging about something you deem confidential is a red flag. Sure, you shouldn't hold secrets from each other, but everyone deserves the right to privacy. They don't approve of (most of) your friends. Not liking one or two of your friends is fine. Not everyone can get along. But if you spend more time struggling to maintain peace than enjoying your relationship, something's wrong. Immaturity Is among Those Relationship Warning Signs You Don't Want to Deal with Emotional maturity is a major quality. If you've settled down, but your lover still acts like

Distance

  Seek to understand, rather than to be understood...  Listen when spoken to. Abandon your ideals to hear those of another. Listen with your heart and mind to what is being shared and understand the person speaking. Empathy, true empathy to spirit, one another and the universe...   Amber | www.intothesoul.com

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