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Attract New Love & End a Relationship Spell

End a Relationship Spell End a negative relationship or marriage, and strengthen or seek a new love Follow the process here to cut yourself free from an existing relationship – whether it’s a spouse, lover, family member or friend, as well as to attract new love into your life. This spell also seeks to replace the energy of the banished person with new and positive energies, either by strengthening another positive relationship in your life, seeking out a new love interest, or strengthen a newly found love. To cast this End a Relationship Spell you will need the following: 1 piece of paper, folded vertically to leave a crease down the centre Pen or Paper Black Candle White Candle Run Devil Run Oil - see below for how to make your own Cut & Clear Oil – see below to make your own Half a cup of salt or thereabouts Teaspoon red pepper powder – e.g. cayenne, paprika etc. Teaspoon of grave yard dirt Come to me Oil – see below for how to make your own Love me Oil – see below for how to make your own Dried Rose Petals Incense such as aloe or sandalwood Van Van Powder - see below for how to make your own A small table or space to lay your items out on Run Devil Run Oil

Healing Emotional Pain – Gabor Mate

Gabor Mate puts it to us that the society we live in, has become one that magnifies the difficulty of navigating traumatic painful experiences and emotional distress. He points to the prevailing attitude that a quick fix is best. If you are in pain, if you feel down you are encouraged to seek distractions, keep busy, soldier on and failing that, take a handful of pills. The message we are given is that it is shameful to feel pain. That mental health issues are shameful and that it is not okay, to be not okay. Therefore we must deny our experience, and put great effort into being who we are not. One could be cynical and suggest there are economic drivers for this approach, as those who soldier on do not become 'burdens on society' or government funding. Lending support to the theory that today's approach to mental health is an economically driven one, is Lord [Richard] Layard's, "Action for Happiness" Initiative, a British program, that receives government funding to aid it in spreading the message that painful emotions can be managed by a one size fits all approach. In this case, Layard's theory is that there is no need to be anything but happy and in adopting his "10 Keys to Happiness" one and all can successfully avoid emotional pain, and becoming a burden upon

The New Psychic Capital: Silicon Valley

Silicon Valley is becoming the psychic capital of the United States. Jeremy Lybarger takes a look at the growing number of people seeking advice and guidance from psychics and intuitives in San Francisco. This is a trend we believe is on the rise globally - not isolated to SF. However, it's of particular interest to focus on SF and Silicon Valley as this is epicentre of technical and computing breakthroughs. The place where Techies and Engineers, schooled in science and logic, live. Theoretically the people who many would expect to be the least likely to turn to an intuitive for guidance. Psychic Capital: Tech and Silicon Valley Turn to Mystics for Advice By Jeremy Lybarger Wednesday, Jul 15 2015 The names of the tech workers in this story have been changed. Ten thousand miles from Silicon Valley, in a room near the Black Sea, Yegor Karpenchekov dreams of money. At night, while the rest of Odessa sleeps and cocaine smugglers drift in and out of the port under cover of darkness, Yegor logs onto FaceTime and talks to a 70-year-old woman in San Francisco. Her name is Sally Faubion, and five months ago she recruited Yegor from the freelancer marketplace UpWork to code her apps. She believes "divine intervention" brought them together; for Yegor, it was likely $20 per hour and the promise of steady

Toxic Shame

Unlike ordinary shame, “internalized shame” hangs around and alters our self-image. It generally lies beneath our conscious awareness, but can easily be triggered, for some it is the underlying theme upon which their entire identity is built - a shame-based identity. Characteristics of Toxic Shame Toxic shame differs from ordinary shame, which passes in a day or a few hours, in the following respects: It can hide in our unconscious, so that we’re unaware that we have shame. When we experience shame, it lasts much longer. The feelings and pain associated with shame are of greater intensity. An external event isn’t required to trigger it. Our own thoughts can bring on feelings of shame. It leads to shame spirals that cause depression and feelings of hopelessness and despair. It causes chronic “shame anxiety” — the fear of experiencing shame. It’s accompanied by voices, images, or beliefs originating in childhood and is associated with a negative “shame story” about ourselves. We needn’t recall the original source of the immediate shame, which usually originated in childhood or a prior trauma. It creates deep feelings of inadequacy. Shame-Based Beliefs The fundamental belief underlying shame is that “I’m unlovable — not worthy of connection.” Usually, internalized shame manifests as one of the following beliefs or a variation thereof: I’m stupid. I’m unattractive (especially to a romantic partner). I’m a

Affirmations & Wisdom for the Soul

Help someone when you can - you might be the only person that does. You can't change what you don't acknowledge. Your naked body should be reserved for those who fall in love with your naked soul. Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together. Don’t think of cost. Think of value. If they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you. Hardship and struggle build character. Overcoming hardship delivers authenticity and meaning to life. Every accomplishment begins with someone trying. Making a person smile changes the world – their world. The only normal people you know are the ones you don’t know very well. Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you react to it. It’s better to be alone than to be lonely in bad company. You choose the life you lead. It's all yours. You either chose it actively, or you choose to passively let it happen to you - either way, it's your creation. Don’t choose the one who is beautiful to the world; choose the one who makes your world beautiful. Falling in love isn't a choice. Staying in love is. Whilst seeking perfection in another, you are blinded to the perfect imperfection of those who would make you truly happy. Never do something permanently foolish just because you are temporarily

White Light Healing – Here’s how!

White Light Healing – Energy Boost White light healing is a very old method of cleansing and renewing energy. I most frequently perform this for my clients that are suffering from depression or anxiety, as it lifts the negativity from the person, leaving them feeling far better physically and emotionally. White lighting can be done anywhere, by anyone, and requires nothing but your mental focus. (I’m serious – you can do this at the bus stop , on the train, in the doctors waiting room … This method of healing can be applied helpfully to many situations – spaces that need clearing, objects that contain unwanted energy or spirits, for the cleansing of your tarot cards, wands, instruments, crystals and other magical objects.One of the most powerful ways you can use white light, is to cleanse a person’s energy. It leaves them feeling clearer, noticeably less depressed and worried, and gives them a renewed sense of energy and vitality. Many of my clients have talked about feeling appreciably better for up to 2 weeks following a session, and I’ve found over time that I have been teaching them all to do this for themselves as it’s so beneficial. They report having great success with it, and it made me want to share it with you all. The steps are below. White Light Healing: Sit or lie

Remove a Curse or The Evil Eye

If you believe that a curse has been placed upon you or your family then this is for you – how to remove a curse. Sometimes you know for certain that a curse has been placed upon you as the one who cast it has told you, other times you may suspect it due to the events that are taking place in your life, or an uneasy feeling, or sense that you are under a cloud, or the ‘evil eye’. Here is a spell that you can cast yourself to remove a curse that has been placed upon you, or your family. This spell is an uncrossing one and is very powerful. It will remove the negative spell that has been cast be it a curse, a hex or the  evil eye. To remove a curse with this spell you will need the following: fresh or dried St. John’s Wort white sage dragons blood resin powder ceremonial knife, dagger, or athame if you have one a white candle a black candle a bowl of salt a bowl of water a sachet to put your herbs in  one whole ripe lemon. Cast a circle as you normally do, and light all the candles. Whilst you hold the lemon in your hands, focus your concentration on the lemon. See it drawing the curse away from you. Dip your athame into the bowl of water and then use it to slice

Narcissistic Charm – Beware

Sometimes the charm of a narcissist inhibits you from seeing their narcissism. When you first met your heir spouse, there was something about them that was enticing. There was what seemed like an irresistible pull to someone who perfectly matched your needs and wants, it seemed a match made in heaven. However, the fairy tale engagement and marriage came to an abrupt halt the day you walked down the aisle. The narcissistic spouse said you had changed and you believed your spouse. So desperate to return back to the fairy tale, you became whatever your narcissist demanded. But it was not enough. The more you acquiesced, the more ultimatums surfaced. Narcissistic Charm Desperate to find another solution, you finally begin to look at your spouse’s behavior. Could they be narcissistic? What does a narcissistic spouse even look like? Here are some signals to look out for. Does your spouse … Expects you to meet their needs at all times? You are required to anticipate what, how, and when they need admiration and adoration. This is a one-way street where you give, they take but they don’t give in return. Projects their negative characteristics onto you? They say you are needy, never satisfied, ungrateful for all they do, and have unreasonable expectations. Yet your friends and family have not verbalized any such complaints about you. Get jealous

Spiritual Oils – Recipes & Instructions

Simple recipes for you to use to create and blend your own oils for love spells, prosperity and luck spells, as well as to cleanse and banish and heal. Making your own oils is quick, saves you money and ensures they are a good quality and also that the blending process is infused with ''intent'' which creates a far more powerful oil than you will buy online. Spiritual Oils for Love Spells Below you will find recipes for incense, and oils for love spells. These can be used in your spellwork, worn on your body, or to anoint a room or possession. They assist in the igniting of Attraction, and Lust, and in signalling to the guides and universe that you are seeking your soulmate. Come to Me Incense You will need: 1/4 teaspoon black coffee powder a half cup of shredded candle wax a tablespoon of corn-starch, potato starch, or tapioca flour a chopped up long stem rose extra rose petals a handful of dried jasmine or lavender a teaspoon of coriander a spoonful of raw sugar (sweet) or brown sugar (punishment or vengeance) Instructions: Mix these ingredients well. Put them in a pan or mild of a desired, store-able shape, and melt it gently. Let this cool, and then you can break off small pieces as needed. Burn in an incense burner or

Understanding the Narcissist

A Narcissist’s life is filled with anxiety. The need to alleviate these anxieties is what drives much of their behavior. They are a walking contradiction with desires to have emotional security and a need to be alone at the same time. On top of the need to alleviate themselves of anxiety, their actions are also self-esteem driven. Because he derives his sense of self-worth from the people and things in his environment, the choices he makes and the things he does reflect that. Most of the time he isn’t thinking of anyone else. He’s thinking, ‘how does this make me look,’ hurting you is usually an unfortunate repercussion he often never even considered. So in these two respects he is not really aware of his behavior. However, we all know that if we want X to happen we must do Y to achieve the desired result. For instance, if you want a paycheck you must get up and go to work every day. If we are looking at the manipulative aspect of a Narcissist, abso-freakin-lutely he is aware that he is manipulating you. Some Narcissists are more manipulative than others, but believe me when he wants something from you, he’s going to tell you what you want hear, or do what he needs to, to get it, knowing full well, he has no intention of

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