Will he come back to me?
Is he or she going to come back to me? "Will he come back to me?" is one of the questions I hear every single day in my work. It is this question alone that brings many people to a spiritual counsellor, like me, for the first time. They need answers, they need insight and they want to know if there's a light at the end of the tunnel, if this pain will be taken away. It's human nature; everyone wants to know whether the one that they love, the source of their heartache will return having realised the stupidity of leaving someone as special as ourselves. So this is the state many arrive in when they come for a reading; and it tends to set my internal alarm bells off. It is not an empowering question to ask, nor is it really helpful either… and the worst thing about it is that a positive response can really do little more than allay your fears temporarily and quite possibly see you putting your life in limbo as you faithfully wait on this person's return at the expense of your own self esteem and personal growth. And then what happens if when they return nothing has changed with them? That will be no good. If nothing has changed you can be sure you are going to





