finding real love

Finding real love - Three Steps that will work. Feeling the love Admit it. How much are you judging them? How much do you want them to be different from the way they are? If you want to feel loved, you have to LOVE. And you have to love honestly, humbly, and fully (even when they don’t do something the way you would). There are so many different things you could find to love about the people that cross your path each day, that it's actually quite mind-blowing. Really, it is. The truth is, that every single one of them has many great qualities, lots of loveable quirks a beating heart and a sense of humour - in other words a lot to love. But if you aren't feeling ''the love'',  and you aren't feeling loved either, it's got a hell of a lot to do with the fact that you're not looking for what you can love about others. (you're seeing the ''other stuff'' - that doesn't help you!!) Don’t use this as a reason to think you’re a failure. If you blame yourself or beat yourself up for your shortcomings, that’s not finding things to love about others. Just find things to love about others. That’s it. Being the Love Yes of course you've heard this before. I know you have. I know you know, in theory at least