Beware the Charmer

Sometimes the charm of a narcissist inhibits you from seeing their narcissism. When you first met your heir spouse, there was something about them that was enticing. There was what seemed like an irresistible pull to someone who perfectly matched your needs and wants, it seemed a match made in heaven. However, the fairy tale engagement and marriage came to an abrupt halt the day you walked down the aisle. The narcissistic spouse said you had changed and you believed your spouse. So desperate to return back to the fairy tale, you became whatever your narcissist demanded. But it was not enough. The more you acquiesced, the more ultimatums surfaced. Narcissistic Charm Desperate to find another solution, you finally begin to look at your spouse’s behavior. Could they be narcissistic? What does a narcissistic spouse even look like? Here are some signals to look out for. Does your spouse … Expects you to meet their needs at all times? You are required to anticipate what, how, and when they need admiration and adoration. This is a one-way street where you give, they take but they don’t give in return. Projects their negative characteristics onto you? They say you are needy, never satisfied, ungrateful for all they do, and have unreasonable expectations. Yet your friends and family have not verbalized any such complaints about you. Get jealous