TOXIC PEOPLE

Toxic people are everywhere, and unfortunately most of us have at least one of them in our lives. New research shows that apart from being a complete drag, toxic people, can actually harm our brains, and weaken our immune systems. Learn the tell-tale signs of toxic personalities and get to know how to handle the toxic people in your life that you have to interact with.

DeadBeat Parents Are In The News – Everyone’s Talking

RePost - Courier Mail, DeadBeat Parents Watch Out. Too Good. Repost Required. Boys' toys in their millions are being seized from daddy scrooges who are snubbing their legal requirements to pay child support. Boats, property, cars and other luxury items worth up to $4 million were seized last year from 172 parents, who had claimed they could not afford to pay child support or just did not want to fork out the cash for their children. And the latest data obtained by The Courier-Mail shows the second-highest debt belongs to Queenslanders, who are owed almost $288 million. Nationally, more than $1 billion is owed. But money recovered by court orders and other measures do not come close to what is owed. Last financial year, more than $25 million in outstanding child support payments were recovered through tax lodgement enforcements, $116 million was seized from intercepting tax refunds and almost $7 million was collected from departure prohibition orders - whereby parents are refused to leave the country unless they pay what is owed. The rising debt puts pressure on Social Services Minister Kevin Andrews to reform the system, which can leave some parents, who are owed money, turning to welfare for help. More than 5 million Australians receive welfare in some form. Mr Andrews refused to buy into the issue on Monday. But tough-talking Human Services

7 Types Of Toxic People That Are Holding You Back

  7 Types of Toxic People that Are Holding You Back When people don't make any progress in life, their first instinct is to blame themselves. After all, aren't we the ones who are responsible for the choices we make in life? Sure, that's true. However, sometimes, your lack of achievements isn't due to your personal shortcomings. Sometimes, such issues stem from the toxic people in your life. Naturally, spotting the people who are holding you back isn't a walk in the park. They tend to blend in rather well, and even try to deceive you at times - often laying the blame on you!   Well, I've decided to offer a helping hand. Here are seven types of toxic people you should avoid in life: The Judgmental This kind of toxic person is rather hard to spot. That's because they don't seem out of the ordinary at first. However, there's one way to tell them apart from the rest: They have a massive ego. Nothing will ever be good enough to satisfy them. You could have the best intentions in the world, but it just won't matter to them. I don't recommend wasting time trying to please them - it will just cause you unnecessary pain and turmoil. It's best to just cut these toxic people out of your life altogether. The Stagnant These

4 Types of People That Are Harming Your Spiritual Health

  Our disposition, happiness and even way of thinking depend on the people that surround us. If someone in your life is harming your spiritual health, you should address that. If they don't change, the best thing you can do is to cut any ties with them. It's important that you recognize the type of people that will drag you down. Here are four of them: The Judgmental If most of your conversations with a friend are you talking about your ideas and them shutting you down, you're dealing with a judgmental. Instead of finding the positive aspect, they go out of their way to find the bad part. These people surround themselves with negativity. They are harming your spiritual health and slowly turning you into another negative person. Listen to judgmental people too much and you'll lose sight of your dreams. They'll make you think your aspirations are impossible to achieve. Not every idea will be a winner, but they all teach you lessons. Constructive criticism is fine, but you can go without people always talking you down. The Envious The judgmental is just a negative person. It's how they are. The jealous type, however, will consciously concentrate negativity towards you. There isn't a certain way the envious is harming your spiritual health. They will dislike you for your successes and think of ways to hurt you. Anyone could come up with something

Narcissistic Charm – Beware

Sometimes the charm of a narcissist inhibits you from seeing their narcissism. When you first met your heir spouse, there was something about them that was enticing. There was what seemed like an irresistible pull to someone who perfectly matched your needs and wants, it seemed a match made in heaven. However, the fairy tale engagement and marriage came to an abrupt halt the day you walked down the aisle. The narcissistic spouse said you had changed and you believed your spouse. So desperate to return back to the fairy tale, you became whatever your narcissist demanded. But it was not enough. The more you acquiesced, the more ultimatums surfaced. Narcissistic Charm Desperate to find another solution, you finally begin to look at your spouse’s behavior. Could they be narcissistic? What does a narcissistic spouse even look like? Here are some signals to look out for. Does your spouse … Expects you to meet their needs at all times? You are required to anticipate what, how, and when they need admiration and adoration. This is a one-way street where you give, they take but they don’t give in return. Projects their negative characteristics onto you? They say you are needy, never satisfied, ungrateful for all they do, and have unreasonable expectations. Yet your friends and family have not verbalized any such complaints about you. Get jealous

Understanding the Narcissist

A Narcissist’s life is filled with anxiety. The need to alleviate these anxieties is what drives much of their behavior. They are a walking contradiction with desires to have emotional security and a need to be alone at the same time. On top of the need to alleviate themselves of anxiety, their actions are also self-esteem driven. Because he derives his sense of self-worth from the people and things in his environment, the choices he makes and the things he does reflect that. Most of the time he isn’t thinking of anyone else. He’s thinking, ‘how does this make me look,’ hurting you is usually an unfortunate repercussion he often never even considered. So in these two respects he is not really aware of his behavior. However, we all know that if we want X to happen we must do Y to achieve the desired result. For instance, if you want a paycheck you must get up and go to work every day. If we are looking at the manipulative aspect of a Narcissist, abso-freakin-lutely he is aware that he is manipulating you. Some Narcissists are more manipulative than others, but believe me when he wants something from you, he’s going to tell you what you want hear, or do what he needs to, to get it, knowing full well, he has no intention of

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